''Does it really get that boring after a while?''
It hurt her really bad. I mean, why wouldn't it? My heart dropped when I read it, imagine how she would have taken it.
She has been studying hard lately. Her resolution for the new term. She rearranged her priorities and didn't spend much time with him compared to before. But she told me a few days ago that it's alright, because she's studying over here while he's studying over there because his exams are coming up soon. And that was what she thought. He thought differently.
Did he enter into this relationship thinking it's all going to be fun and games? That it's always going to be butterflies and love in the air? When she asked him what was the status about, he explain, said they aren't as how they were before.
Karunya then said there's the honeymoon period when two people get into a relationship, but the honeymoon period would come to an end. After a certain period, you just go back to your daily routine, but still loving and making time for each other. Because there's still other things in life. Not to say that other things are more important, but they are there.
I agree with her. I think things change, with life. May be for the better or for the worst. How you are now with someone, may not be how you will be like in the future. You must not let that define your relationship. Sure, they may used to calling or texting each other, but if those are gone, that doesn't mean so is the relationship. The relationship is worth much more than calls, texts or sending gifts through the mail.
There may be constantly missing and needing her when she's busy, but you have to trust that she's doing the best she can, and if she could, she would have called or texted. Don't jump to the conclusion that she's just choosing not get back to you. Accept that things change, and if the change is necessary or for the better of something, go along with it. Adapt to it. It'll be a new adventure.
Trust. And always being there for each other. Get that Hollywood picture out of your head. It does not mean literally being there for each other (though sure, that would be wonderful) but being there for each other in times of need. If she has to study, give her space to. She would come back to you, because you're important. You have to trust that you're important.
And think before you say anything. I don't think it was very nice of him to post that he thinks his relationship has gotten boring on someplace public.
She replied very politely on Twitter though :
''I think sometimes guys should think before they say something because it can be just
so freaking hurting''
Karunya posted something that is verytheJD.
''All you mouth-no-insurance people should just go jump off a clift''
Because honestly,
if you're not going to stay for the bad times, then you sure as hell don't deserve to stay for the good times.
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